Paperback: 304 pages
Publisher: Penguin Books (March 15, 2016)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0143108050
ISBN-13: 978-0143108054
Product Dimensions: 5.4 x 0.8 x 8.4 inches
Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (90 customer reviews)
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I came to this book with a lot of shared perspectives - both Gottschall and I work in the prim world of academics, and he went to the MMA gym and got punched in the head for a year and a half, and I went to Iraq as a freelance photojournalist. The two aren't that different. "Men" in the general "men" sense of the word often find themselves chasing something, usually with an ever-encroaching desperation. There's a reason why the mid-life crisis cliche is a man in a convertible, not a woman. Put another very sexist way, men have mid-life crises - women are the reason for the mid-life crisis. That's because women get stable and sane the older they get - while men realize their chance at being the alpha male has slipped away.This book would not have worked had it been Gottschall's memoir about MMA fighting - that part is very interesting but would have run out of steam if it had been longer than a magazine article.This book works - and it works very well - because he doubles-up his MMA memoir with an insightful and conversational study of men and violence, and really male culture overall. This is not new, I know, and other books have trod this ground - but not books that I have read. So this combination did a great job of melding a personal story with the science behind it.I do think my opinion is skewed because I see some of myself in Gottschall's story and that connected me to the book in a way another reader might not experience. But I think this is a strong piece of nonfiction for any man wondering why they are behaving the way they are - so anybody looking for a little self-awareness would at least be intrigued.
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